Lee Kirkman: Breaking In to a Woman's World

By Dena Harris

Ladies, the tables have turned. Instead of women trying to break into traditionally male-dominated business segments, the men are now trying to break into ours.

Meet Lee Kirkman, a Mary Kay independent sales representative who has created major success for himself in the one year he has been selling the Mary Kay line. But Lee is going one step further than just selling to women -- he's also giving back to them.

Lee has joined forces with the Women's Resource Center (WRC) of Greensboro, NC a non-profit whose mission is to "empower women to lead self-directed lives." What Lee brings to the WRC is 13% of his sales proceeds. "All a person has to do is tell me they would like their sale to benefit the WRC and I'll donate 13% from their sales," says Lee. "The sale can be from a show, an individual order, anything." Several of Lee's team members have also agreed to donate the 13%.

Lee connected with the Greensboro WRC through a mutual friend, Ashley Brooks Reckard, the Executive Director of the Center. "Ashley and I got together and talked about the goals of the WRC, and what I could offer them," said Lee. "The goal of Mary Kay is to enrich women's lives. It doesn't matter if it's through skin care, self-esteem, whatever. The mission of the WRC is similar, and I truly value the work they do. It's a win-win situation."

Lee became a Mary Kay Representative on April 1, 2000. He says, "If Mary Kay could begin her business on a Friday the 13th and grow to be a 1.3 billion dollar business, I figured April Fool's day couldn't hurt to begin my business.

Although Mary Kay's independent sales force is well over 850,000, Lee estimates that less than 1% is male. His gender works well for him as an attention-getter. "Of course the first thing everyone wants to know is how I got started," he says. "Go figure."

He got started through a friend of his sister's, Susan Carson. "Susan called me up on a Thursday and asked me if I thought my sister would be interested in selling Mary Kay. One thing led to another and my sister didn't have the time. While working on makeup for a theatre production, someone said she was frantic because her Mary Kay rep had moved. I told her I could hook her up, and the rest is history."

For the past 5 years I've worked as the Circulation Director at North Carolina's Our State magazine," said Lee. "Right now I'm devoting maybe 14-16 hours a week to my Mary Kay business and from that I'm earning half of the salary I make at my full-time position."

Lee's business, as with many Mary Kay representatives, thrives on word of mouth. Is it hard being a man and asking to give women makeovers? "Yes and no," he says smiling. "My team members (all women) tell me I get away with saying things to women that other women wouldn't be able to. I can tell them when something looks bad."

He also sells Mary Kay products to men. "We have a men and teen line of products," says Lee. "But the women's product is so fantastic that a lot of the men just use that."

So there's no hang-up for men buying Mary Kay? "Oh, some of them insist on it being secretive, " says Lee laughing. "I don't mind. And you'd be surprised who buys it. The husband of one of the women I work with owns a construction company and his crew is always placing order for Satin Hands. The guys at the site swear by it."

So what is Lee's best selling product? "Definitely Satin Hands," he says. "Even my dad uses it. It sells itself."

Lee says what he enjoys most about his work is helping women feel better about themselves. "Even if it's just for an hour, I help women forget about all the other stuff that's going on in their lives, and I just get to pamper them and watch them enjoy it."

Lee also believes in the benefits offered by Mary Kay. "Every summer our division of about 8,000 sales reps meet in Dallas, and I just sit and listen to the most fantastic stories of women who were housewives all their lives, who start with a $114 expenditure to start their Mary Kay business and are now millionaires. I'm in awe of them. It's really inspiring."

Erica Derr, a Mary Kay representative said when asked what she thought about Lee Kirkman selling cosmetics, "Lee fits right in. It's inspiring that a man realizes what potential is out there. Putting your best face forward really does effect everything you do and everything you can be."


Lee Kirkman, Independent Image Consultant, can be contacted at 336-392-4004 or visit his website.

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Mary Kay Inc.

The mission statement of this company reads:

Mary Kay's mission is to enrich women's lives.

We will do this in tangible ways, of offering quality products to consumers, financial opportunities to our sales force, and fulfilling careers to our employees.

We also will reach out to the heart and spirit of people, enabling Personal growth and fulfillment for the women whose lives we touch.

We will carry out our mission in a spirit of care for the positive values on which our Company was founded.

Such is the alignment of the billion dollar company Mary Kay Ash founded on the principles of

  • Integrity
  • Enthusiasm
  • Praise
  • Leadership
  • Quality
  • Teamwork
  • Service
  • Balance

Mary Kay Inc was created with one objective: to provide an open-ended Opportunity for women simply, May Kay encourages building a successful business while living a balanced life-a philosophy that continues to thrive after 38 years. Today, the latest developments in Web Technology and online shopping allow Mary Kay independent Beauty Consultants to serve their millions of customers worldwide with personalized service and efficient delivery of products.

Since 1963, Mary Kay Inc. has grown from the 8 original sales force members to a sales force numbering well over 850,000 which do a wholesale business of $1.3 billion in sales worldwide.

Started in business training others to sell and decided that she could make more money to support her children as a single parent if instead of training others, she entered the sales force. She was motivated by the experience that she wasn't paid her worth and created Mary Kay Inc. to enable women to realize whatever level income they desired considering their own circumstances: mother, wife, age of children, drive etc…

She was also famous for her philanthropic efforts. Breaking the Silence: Journeys of Hope is a national campaign to stop the abuse of women. Mary Kay Inc. continues to support this cause even after the passing of their founder, November 22, 2001. Mary Kay Ash is still one of the few female Horatio Alger Award recipients and left an indelible mark on the world of business, and on opportunities open to women.

Who will ever forget the sight of a pink Mary Kay car?

Mary Kay believed in "practicing what she preached" and followed these corporate principles:

  1. The Golden Rule "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
  2. God first, family second, career third.
  3. Community
  4. Financial opportunity
  5. Personal fulfillment

Recognition is important and Mary Kay Ash believed in recognizing the success of her sales forces at all levels. This week Lee Kirkman will be one of the first recipients of a specially designed gold ring with diamonds and pink sapphire to honor his success in sales for a male in a female-dominated company.

Other recipients receive awards such as: a diamond bee pin, career apparel and a gold ladder pin. Who among us can forget the pink Cadillac or more recent pink GM cars.

May the pink of Mary Kay Ash's vision continue to live on to empower women and men!

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